How to Talk to a Loved One about Receiving In-Home Health Care

If you’ve discovered that your elderly parent or other loved one could benefit from the services of in-home health care in the Rochester, MN, area, it might be time to have that conversation with him or her. While seniors may be resistant to accepting assistance, it is often in their best interests to do so. Before initiating what can sometimes be a difficult conversation, review the following tips to help you have a productive and loving dialogue.

 

Determine what help is needed. Make an honest assessment of what kind of help your loved one needs and which services might work best.

 

Know your options in advance. Do some research and offer specific recommendations for the services that are available in your area. After all, the more you know about the various in-home health care services that are available, the easier it is going to be for you to explain them to your loved one. In the Minnesota counties of Dodge, Fillmore, Goodhue, Mower, Olmstead, Wabasha and Winona, Comfort Health offers a host of high-quality and compassionate in-home health care services. Comfort Health’s trained medical professionals can also provide occupational, physical, and speech therapy, wound and respiratory care, infusion therapy, diabetes management, and cardiac care.

 

Pick the right time and place to have the conversation. Don’t broach the subject when your loved one is tired, stressed or highly distracted. Pick a time when you’re both relaxed and have time to devote to the subject. Once you’ve initiated the conversation, ask open-ended questions and give your loved one time to answer.

 

Be encouraging and address your loved one’s concerns. A parent’s perspective is often quite different from that of his or her adult children. A senior may view in-home care as an invasion of privacy or feel that he or she will have a loss of dignity if assistance is accepted. To put those fears to rest, assure your loved one that the home-care service will be provided by only licensed facilities with highly trained home-care aides who are bonded and insured.

 

Point out the benefits. Gently explain how nice it will be to have assistance with light housework and personal care needs, while enjoying some pleasant conversation with a compassionate in-home health care aide. Let them know that having help will give them the energy and spare time to enjoy other pursuits, such as spending more time with family and friends.

 

Place emphasis on your needs. Parents may be more amenable to accepting in-home assistance if they realize that by doing so, they’re doing you a favor. After all, between working and raising your children, you’re a very busy person with precious little time to spare. Tell your parents that you will feel more comfortable knowing that someone is offering assistance on a regular basis. This is especially true if you live far away.

 

Exercise patience. Avoid arguments that lead to more resistance. If your loved one gets upset and decides that he or she doesn’t want to discuss the topic any further, let it go for the time being. If you get angry or annoyed, it is only going to make his or her resolve not to listen that much stronger.

 

Seek assistance. If necessary, ask another relative, trusted family friend, pastor, priest or other religious adviser, nurse, doctor or social worker to intervene. It’s possible that your loved one will listen to and heed the advice of someone else who cares about him or her.

 

For more details on Comfort Health’s extensive programs and services, call 800-204-2332.

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